Wednesday, 20 September 2017

Bag-Man



Everyone has stories 
Grey stories

Born from unselected parents 
Grow carrying the bags everywhere 
Loaded with various objects 
Heavy, light, stink, fragrant, black, white, square, round 
Even sometimes, many are tucked, which shape, smell and its color abstract even absurd

Everyone has stories 
Grey stories
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Thursday, 13 July 2017

What if. . .

What if our goal is different,
so you may scold me

What if our nationality is different,
so our kids confuse what to choose

What if our culture is different,
so we act weirdly

What if our food is different,
so you cant eat

What if our language is different,
so I misunderstand your points

What if your family does not agree,
so I have no right to date you

What if the way we think is different,
so we go to different way

What if our priorities are different,
so the conflict will happen everyday

Will we be together?



because




The real lover will accept the differences, 

The real lover will see the other shoes,

The real lover will look for the future, not the history. . .
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Tuesday, 11 July 2017

Pattani March 2016: Attend Unusual Wedding



Thailand Imigration
Once my friend from Thailand, TuanArina, posted about her sister wedding's invitation in our WhatsApp group, thoughtlessly, I directly said, "Yes, I am in!!". The reason was because I wanted to see their culture on how they celebrate the wedding.

While I am still here in Malaysia, that was rare and unique experience for me. Imagine, mostly I attended any wedding parties at the same city, sometimes outside the city but the same province, yet still the same country. Likewise, I had attended the wedding in Malaysia, the country where I stay at the moment to pursue my study.

This ceremony required me to cross the countries, between Malaysia and Thailand. In fact, that was not as easy as crossing a line on a map. Each country has its own policy of state sovereignty, language and behavior. Therefore, everyone of us must follow, obey and respect their attributes.

Relying on the distance from campus to the border, we only needed for about 15 to 20 minutes to reach the border. Sadly, only 4 of us went to this ceremony. This was understandable since some of us needed to apply visa before entering Thailand. Thus, some of them, were busy with their tests and assignments.

We actually in diverse trip, Zerkiny from Cambodia, Khin Lan San from Myanmar, I'm from Indonesia.

I was lucky that 2 to 3 of my classes on the next day were canceled due to my professors were attending the conference. And the other class, I had permission from my lecturer to leave the class.


After Thailand border

This was our van which was sending us to Pattani

One of the money changer nearby Thai border

When I heard about Pattani, the first idea was about conflict between the group of people who want to separate and Thailand military. Since I was kid, I loved to watch documentary in one of the TV program. That time, the presenter recorded the condition where they called "Red Zone" in Pattani. Across Malaysia-Thailand border by bus, I thought it was cool journey. I still remembered that he recorded Changlun and surrounding C-mart. Now, I experienced it like him in the TV.

As I know, after passing Thailand border, the transportation that can easily be found are Tuk-Tuk, van, and taxi. It took around 2-3 hours to reach her house by using van. Surprisingly, the price is cheap around  RM 5-6.

Along the journey, there were a lot of checkpoints from Thai soldier. It was freaking out since this is my second time came to Thai and first time to pass these checkpoints on the journey to Pattani. It was in the evening, and when the day was getting dark, the situation was more gripping.

Occasionally, the soldiers stopped us. The driver should turn off the car light and turn on inside the car. The torch was on, hitting our sleepy face. I acted normal, then they let us passed.

I was trying to enjoy the trip but nothing much to see in the darkness. So, I slept for a while until we stopped in the one of the night market in Songkhla. The Street foods in Thailand were very satisfying. Luckily, this market was mostly halal food.

One of the food similar with "Rangin"
Street sign

It looked like fruit but inside was green bean. It tasted sweet

Coconut ice cream
Tuan Arina talked with the Coconut ice cream food seller, maybe she felt strange about us who talked in English and asked many questions what is this and that.

"From from ?" She tried to ask me.
"Ahhh, hai I'm from Indonesia kakak (sister), they are from Cambodia and Myanmar", I replied

Surprising news, there was a car bom attacked this market about two nights before. I got little surprised and more curious by asking many questions yet I was little bit afraid if they put another tragedy in this place while we were still there.

The van continued the trip until our destination. Food here was a champion, after we arrived, we were looking to the restaurant nearby until her sister picked us up.

Thailand used LPG as transportation energy.

Dinner meals

This is wrapped leaves.
Khin was waiting for the tea at the road side.

I was trying to eat this leaf.

The Weddings. . .

Their day had come, the groom and the bride were on their best look. They were like King and Queen of the day. The culture of Melayu was so thick in this place because they were originally part of Malaysia in the Kelantan side. 

I did not notice any different between their wedding ceremony and Malay. The foods, the clothes, the environment except the language, there was no couch for the bride and the groom, and the guests.

I was thinking a bit strange when I did not see the couch for them. They just stood up one another to took pictures and they sat with the guest. It was kind of new thing for me. However, in Thailand, One thing I saw was they used their own calendar on the tagline and it was similar with Myanmar, as my friend Khin told me. In my culture too, in Java, we had our own calendar. Then I realized, it was because Buddhist influence.


The wedding ceremony was last until night. The one which little bit scared us was the guest who brought riffles and guns. Evidently, the commander of rebels also was invited. He came with his wife and child plus his comrades who protected him.

Before he got down, four of his soldiers were checking the situation. Until they saw us were talking in English. One of them looked at me, then I stopped talking and told to my other friends.

"Hey, shut up, there are people who come with riffles are looking at us now", I whispered. 
"Where?" they asked. I just used my eyes to point at them.

Even Tuan herself also little bit afraid, I could see from her eyes. 

"Just silence, we talked slowly. I dont want them to blow our head off here. I still want to study and marry" I said.

Then the commander and his family got down. Some of the soldiers were eating and some in duty. They were switching in sequence. It was good experience to see those in front my eyes. One question which still has no answer, "How could they pass the checkpoints 100 meters from the wedding area?"













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Sunday, 2 October 2016

Volunteer: Turgev-Albukhary Language and Culture

Become volunteer is not something new for me. I've been joining some programs as volunteer. Basically, I like to do something as my heart feel would like to do. There are not much people who work like a donkey without getting paid. I just want to be myself and do what I suppose to do.

Currently, Albukhary Foundation had collaboration with TURGEV Foundation conducted English and Language Camp for about 204 students from Turkey at Albukhary International University, Alor Setar, Malaysia.

Albukhary Foundation is non-profit organisation based in Malaysia which spreads humanity and values to the people of the world. It was founded by Malaysian businessman Tan Sri Syed Mokhtar Albukhary, to give form and structure to the charitable activities that has undertaken from the day he set up his first company in 1974. Furthermore, TURGEV Foundation has made a way to grow teenagers who are  entrepreneur, have been sustaining wealth around globe with 8166 students and with the 1584 graduates gave in 20 years.

Both project stakeholders have aim to support for both developing foreign language and increasing to cultural global interactions by this education program which were arranged by TÜRGEV and Albukhary foundation in Malaysia. In another words, they were doing intensive English class for a month in Albukhary International University (AiU).

In fact, I'm the scholar of Albukhary Foundation since 2011. Therefore, there's no question for me to join any volunteering programs as the way to pay back to the society as my Foundation does.

This program also gave me another chance to interact directly with people from Turkey. Where there's no boundary such as media or 'heard from people' how the Turkish looks like. 

I was happy that most of them were very cool and generous people. They taught me Turkish language in some phrases and idioms. Moreover, they were nationalist and very proud of their country. That's what make Turkey became strong and unite.

Indeed, some problems were happening as part of the cultural activities. I wasn't shocked when they complain about the food was sweet, spicy or less amount. I've been experiencing before with my other friends from Kosovo or Albania. Day-by-day they would adapt with it and it's part of learning the Malaysian culture.

Luckily, in this program the food wasnt completely Malaysian delight. Most of the time the foods were western food. Yet, some of them had experience of testing Nasi Lemak, rambutan and durian; the King of the fruits. 

That's very unforgettable moment to be with you!! Hope to see you guys in Turkey. Now, I need to settle with my lecturer in campus because skipping the classes for the past two weeks. 😂 

Sorry if we did something wrong, we are just human who always do mistakes and keep learning.

Memnun Oldum ve görusürüz!
(Nice to meet you and see you again)


11.44 pm September, 11th 2016
Convocation Hall, AiU 
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Tuesday, 6 September 2016

Jimpitan System in Indonesia: Woman, Poverty and Welfare

Each country has a variety of internal and external issues that could destabilize the country. The main problems focus on three sectors: economic, political and law. However, a problem that requires serious attention is an economic sector with the problem of poverty as it can lower the index of the country's economy.

One of the factors that make the Indonesian population living below the poverty line is a lower level of education than lace impact on the productive sector which resulted in an increase in the number of unemployed.

Indonesia is a densely populated country with a population of 237,641,326 million and increase to 250 million in 2015, therefore, it can be ensured that the country's income will be unbalance due to the increase of population.

Then, it is compounded by the high burden of families in financing the economy as well as several other non-technical factors, one of them is natural disaster such as landslides, earthquakes and floods which is claimed to snatch the property of poor people in Indonesia.

Although Indonesia is said to be a middle-income country (Middle Income Trap) where the conditions for economic development may be slowed or stopped at certain points, it does not mean the problem of poverty is fully the responsibility of the central government. But, it needs cooperation with private institutions or other non-structural supporting parties, where the target of poverty rate fell to 10% in 2014.

Some programs are conducted by the government to focus on the direction of economic development of Indonesia is to maintain price stability of basic commodities, to push economic growth, which stands for the poor people, to enhance well as expand the scope of community-driven development, to improve the access of the poor to basic services and to build social protection systems for society. In order to strengthen the program, government does technical guidance or mentoring and training in financial management of micro-finance institutions (Mis).

Cooperative business is considered as a productive sector that could boost economic growth in the country as indicated by the increase in GDP (Gross Domestic Product). Can't be denied that women also contribute to the economic life, because women have a central role in helping to realize the welfare of the family. 

Approximately 8506 women's cooperatives that have been approved by a legal entity with a mission to eradicate poverty together, but because Indonesia is facing the capitalist economic system more priority to the acquisition of income based on the ownership of capital, as a result of capital owners are getting richer and the poor poorer. While the formation of the cooperative was formed on the basis of concern that are not contrary to free competition, but cooperation based on solidarity, justice, honesty. It is not a conflict of interest are raised, but bring mutual interest to the ideal society prosperous, fair and equitable.

Thus, the idea of the cooperative is expected to bring a renewal of the world economy in order to avoid social lameness. Results of women's cooperative assessment in 2011 showed a positive effect. But after a grant from the government and also the supervision of the government completed, the cooperative process is stopped too. Because the cooperative is formed not on the basis of the initial objectives, but is formed because of the assistance.

Indonesia is a rich country as well as its culture and positive essence in it that can be applied in solving the economic problem. As a follow-up to the establishment of the women's cooperative program to improve work efficiency and meeting the needs of society, therefore, it needs "Jimpitan System" as a solution to the sustainability of women's cooperatives as well as to lift the local wisdom of East Java.

Jimpitan is derived from the Javanese language. Jimpitan or pinches that take in small amounts, "jimpitan" is collected then will be transferred to the funding of social activities for the residents and can contribute to the construction of mosques, schools, and donations village infrastructure.

The expectation from this system, women's cooperative is able to provide the foundation of the relationship between members, although the government no longer participated in providing assistance either donations or assistance, but cooperative women can continue to contribute to improving the economy around.

As the result, it will be returned to the community also indicated that with the increase of income per capita, and if the result of this continue to be developed, the initial target to enter the upper middle income countries can be realized and become an independent state by optimizing local knowledge.

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Saturday, 4 June 2016

The Differences Between Inner Beauty And Physical Beauty

People are always looking for the beauty. It is either the beauty from inside or outside. And beauty is one of my favorite topic to talk about. What is beauty? Beauty is something universal which people always feel satisfied and proud about sometimes. We all know that beauty is something which is abstract, hence, it is relative. Perhaps, a girl who has physical beauty from the other will look more attractive from man than the others, yet the other man will not be attracted by physical beauty since he prefers the inner beauty or vice versa. Therefore, inner and physical beauty can be seen in term of long lasting, health, and cost.

The most important thing for the beauty is how long it can stay. Physical beauty, especially, has short-term duration rather than inner beauty. Obviously, human cannot defeat the time, therefore human will get old and their beauty will be faded away by the time. On the contrary, inner beauty will remain longer or last forever. Though, that person is old enough but her/his heart will speak up. Some have outer beauty, some have inner beauty, and some are lucky enough to have both. Life is too precious not to live it to the fullest.

Comparing both types of the beauty, I notice another difference. There is a health factor that need to be considered. I am emphasizing on the physical beauty. Many people are racing to show their physical beauty to other to draw an attention. They use instant method which could possibly harm their own bodies such as cancer and infection which possibly can be deadly. For instance, plastic surgery for nose where was done by Michael Jackson because he was lack of self-esteem. On the other hand, inner beauty will be healthier because it has nothing to do with any external used. In addition, inner beauty will create something special which is charisma whereby it will make someone looks more attractive for some reasons. It is advisable that person should consider about their health before upgrading their beauty.

Yet another difference between inner and outer beauty is cost. It is obvious that outer beauty will cost more than inner beauty. People may be going to the special treatment for their special part of the bodies which need to be fixed. Therefore, only certain people can afford it. Besides that, inner beauty is cost-less or it may possibly free yet it is very expensive. It is only can be built personally by practice it every day since it is actually involving psychology and emotion.

Lastly, those are the main three difference between inner beauty and physical beauty. As we have discussed, physical beauty is about how we look yet inner beauty is about how we feel. Thus, inner beauty is more durable though he/she is getting old. Therefore, it is advisable to young generations to balance inner and their physical beauty in the future.


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Saturday, 7 May 2016

Should all cities provide free wireless internet?


Currently, internet technology has emerged rapidly. Wireless Fidelity (WiFi) is one of the technologies that have been implemented in many sectors all around the world. The background of implementing WiFi is because wired technology has limited functions to people who want to access the internet. Even though most people think that free WiFi is not really advantageous, I strongly believe that with free WiFi, people can easily access the internet to browse about information and it will increase the productivity of the citizens. However, there will be a chance for hackers to sniff the personal information.

Wireless internet is a source of information. In fact, the internet can spread the information faster than any other media such as TV, radio, newspaper, etc. Nowadays, it is an effective source of spreading news all over the world. In this globalization era, citizens shouldn’t left behind about what is happening on the other side of the world. According to recent study by University of Oxford in 2013, it shows that 69.93% of people in India have more information after implementing free WiFi in City Park. Thus, the government should implement free WiFi to all cities in order to make its citizens more knowledgeable.

Another reason why providing free wireless internet to all cities has more advantages than disadvantages is because it will increase the productivity of the citizens. People could work virtually anywhere when there is free WiFi provided. According to Minister of transportation in 2015, he said that most people spend half of their life on the road due to traffic jam. Therefore, free wireless could help the people to stay anywhere to submit their work. In addition, housewife who has ability to make online business can also use this facility. As mentioned before, free wireless can increase the productivity of the citizens.

Some people think that free wireless is not safe, due to hacker’s activity to sniff our personal information. These people have the opinion that many cases happened last year involve hacker’s activity, for example, online banking: you check the balance in your bank account, then your phone gets hacked; not only is that an invasion of privacy, but all of your money is now gone. However, I strongly disagree with all these opinions. I think free wireless internet is safe. The new encryption 256 bit technology has been implemented to protect the user access. The network security analyst has confirmed that hackers will need thousand to million years to decry-pt the information from user, therefore, it safe to all users.

In conclusion, free wireless internet has more advantages than disadvantages because internet is source of information and can increase the productivity of citizens. Therefore, we should not have all negative views towards implementing free wireless to all cities. As its very beneficial and significant invention which can change the way of people think. Once again, I totally agree that government should provide free wireless internet to all cities.
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